Task 5

Difference between Fear and Respect.

The topic fear and respect are very different topics. Fear is a negative feeling which destroys the self-confidence of a person. Fear is caused by the belief that something is dangerous. Fear terrifies you of consequences and blocks your mind and stops you from doing certain actions. Fear is such an emotion which is per-programmed into all animals and person. Respect is a positive feeling which comes out from the position of strength. You respect a person when you see a person better in some aspect which energizes your mind. Respect is a natural phenomenon caused in the context of certain observed values, it is also a very high emotion. Respect is earn by respecting others, if we respect others, we get respect in return. Respect is also an act of admiring somebody even if you don’t agree with them whereas fear is when you act what they tell you to act not because you want to but because you are afraid of them or their acts.

Fear and respect have very different consequences. Fear is toxic to a person but respect isn’t. Usually fear seems to destroy ones self-confidence but respect can built a confidence. Fear is life-threatening emotion whereas the respect is life-enhancing emotion. Everything achieved by the fear is forced but everything achieved by the respect is earned not forced. Due to the fear a person seem to ignore things, a person even don’t try to do what they want, a person even can’t trust himself due to the presence of fear. Respect plays very importance role upon the success of a person. Respect establishes a mutual understanding between a groups of people. By fearing other we many get some respect but that kind of respect is only for instance, in this condition we simply get respect because they want to escape from our fear. One can never truly respect a person if he is afraid of him.

Every person in life have fears something/someone. A person should try to face the fear not by escaping from it. If we try to ignore or escape from the fear then we cannot get rid of it for our whole life. Everything done in fear is not genuine but only an action/response to a perceived danger.

Task 4

Difference between Arrogance and Confidence.

Arrogance is an ego and is a feeling of self importance that usually includes some kind of feeling of superiority to others. A person with arrogance needs to prove or show others that he/she is better than others. This desire to rise higher makes the person attempt to lower other people. An arrogant person may seem to ignore any areas of weakness and only play up areas of strength, but they often do so because of an inability to come to terms with weakness. Body language of an arrogant person differs from that of a confident person. The effects of arrogant behavior are usually quite negative. People who are arrogant tend to offend those they encounter by doing whatever it takes. Arrogant people shows off as often as possible, and they are not honest to themselves.

Confidence is a feeling of self-assurance, a feeling of trust in a person, reliance, good faith. They are confident in themselves, they trust in, depend on and have faith in themselves. A confident person accepts their weaknesses or faults, even though they may not like them. This acceptance enables the confident person to handle faults with grace. A confident person need not make life a competition, so a confident person is often much easier to be around. A confident person usually has a balanced and realistic image of himself/herself. A confident person is not threatened when others do well. A confident person rarely will be found lecturing to others on how they are wrong. A confident person knows where he/she stands. Those with confidence have a positive and optimistic attitude.

A confident person feels competent from the inside out, in every task they are given they genuinely try and use their talent to complete the task. This doesn't mean that an arrogant person do not have any kind of skills. In some cases an arrogant person may have more skills than a confident person, but the confident person will always tend to use whatever abilities they have with more calm control than an arrogant person.

So, we can say that a person with arrogance have to face many problems with their life and a confidence person also do have different problems in their life but the difference is the way of dealing with the problem. A person with arrogance tries to ignore the facts about the problem but a confident person deals in a different way to their problem. Arrogant person cannot deal with their problems in calm manner like a confident person does.

Task 3

List of Roles that I play:

•   Student 
• Brother
• Son
• Friend 

Student

I play this role at college or when learning something. At college I play this role with my tutor. I play this role for the one who teaches me something as a tutor. For example I play this role the most because college is a place where we learn something from our tutors where I have to play the role of their student.

And talking about the behavior and the reactions. I behave with them politely, when I behave with them as a student they react well. And about the behavior of the tutor, they behave as I expected.

While playing this role with my tutor I try to achieve as many knowledge as I can about the related topics.

Brother

I play this role at my home. I play this role usually with my sisters at home. As all of my sisters are elder than me I behave with them in a polite way and they reacts in a good way as well. I always behave with them as a brother and they reacts well with me but sometimes in some situations they react with me as a friend.

Son

This is the role that I play the most. I always play this role for my father and mother. My father and mother are whom I play this role with. I play the role of son for them. I behave with them respectfully and they react in a good way.

Taks 2

Personality Test

After doing personality test in http://www.41q.com I found my personality type is Good-natured Realist.Short description of my personality type is mentioned below:

Quiet, kind and conscientious. Can be depended on to follow through. Usually puts the needs of others above their own needs. Stable and practical, they value security and traditions. Well-developed sense of space and function. Rich inner world of observations about people. Extremely perceptive of other’s feelings. Interested in serving others.

Career that could fit me:

Interior decorators, designers, nurses, administrators, managers, secretaries, child care/early childhood development, social work, counselors, paralegals, clergy, office managers, shopkeepers, bookkeepers, homemakers, gardeners, clerical supervisors, curators, family practice physicians, health service workers, librarians, medical technologists, typists.

Renowned persons with similar personality types:

• Alfred Tennyson, poet
• Barbara Bush, American first lady
• Jimmy Stewart, actor
• Kristi Yamaguchi, figure skater
• Louisa May Alcott, novelist
• Michael Caine, actor
• Mother Theresa, missionary nun
• Mary I, queen of England
• Robert E. Lee, army officer
• William Howard Taft, American president

The result of my personality test were somehow true.The nature of my personality "Good Nature Realistic" is applicable for me.I usually sit quite instead of initiating in a conversation and talking about serving others I simply like to help others.And talking about the career that could fit my personality, its quite unfair result.All the career mentioned in the result are very unfamiliar to me and I don't have any interest in any of them.So,the result (specially a career) is not satisfied.

Task1

As a IT student I should improve and develop many abilities.Below are the two of the abilities that I should develop as IT student.

• Work as a development team member, recognizing the different roles within a team and different ways of organizing teams.

• Use available tools to construct and document computer applications.

  

• Work as a development team member,recognizing the different roles within a team and different ways of organizing teams.

This is one of the ability that I should have as a IT student.This is the very important ability that everyone should have.After the graduation we might work for different companies and to complete certain task or project we have to work in team.We should be able to recognize our own roles while working as a development team member.It is necessary to understand or recognize our roles in project to make a team effective.To complete any project or task successfully everyone in a team should give his/her best.We should also know different ways to organize a teams.Everyone should share their ideas which are related to the task,it helps to complete the task smoothly.The team members should have good communication,proper kind of meeting should be done to sort out any problems.


 

• Use available tools to construct and document computer applications.

The above ability is very much common for all the developers.While developing applications,as a developer we should use available resources.As a student we should have a habit of doing some research.There are variety of user-friendly resources,tools available over internet which we can use to develop and document our computer applications.As a IT student we have to document and develop applications.Internet is the best source of the tools that we require while developing an applications and for documentation purpose as well.